Anxiety is one of the most common responses to unresolved trauma. Even after past events have passed, the nervous system can remain on high alert, triggering feelings of fear, emotions, and uncertainty. Traditional therapies can be effective, but some individuals find that their anxiety persists despite their best efforts.
What is EMDR?
EMDR is a structured and therapeutic approach that helps individuals process and heal from traumatic or distressing life experiences. Developed by psychologist Francine Shapiro, this therapy is not only known for treating post traumatic experiences, but it’s used to process anxiety, depression, and other mental health concerns.
Working of EMDR


Assessment
A therapist identifies the specific memories, thoughts, emotions, actions, and physical sensations related to your anxiety and trauma.

Preparation
An individual is introduced to the EMDR process and taught coping strategies to help manage any emotional distress during or between sessions.

Desensitisation
While focusing on distressed memory, the therapist guides you through bilateral stimulation. This helps reduce the intensity of emotions and body sensations connected to the event.

Reprocessing
Positive belief is reinforced through bilateral stimulation, helping the brain reframe the memory more healthily.

Body Scan
An individual mentally scans his body for any lasting physical tension or discomfort. If anything remains, it’s addressed with continued EMDR processing until your body feels at ease.

Closure
The therapist has a check and ensures an individual feels calm before you leave the session.
Over time, many individuals find that the memory no longer carries the same emotional weight, and their anxiety symptoms lessen or even disappear.
How Trauma Gets Stuck in the Brain?
- When an individual experiences something traumatic, the brain and body both go into survival mode, prioritising immediate safety over any practical processing.
- When logical thinking goes off, the fear centre of the mind becomes hyperactive (the amygdala)
- Memories may not be stored like typical memories with a clear timeline and emotional resolution; instead, they are remembered in the form of images, sounds, smells, body sensations, and emotions.
- These emotions are stored in the brain’s emotional memory and can be easily triggered in similar situations experienced before.
- When suddenly it gets triggered, the brain reacts as if trauma is happening again, leading to symptoms of sudden anxiety, panic attacks, and emotional numbness.
- This trauma doesn’t fade over time like regular memories and remains emotionally charged or unresolved.
Conditions and Problems Commonly Treated in EDMR
EMDR was originally developed for post-traumatic disorder, but over time, it has shown effectiveness over a wide range of mental health issues.
Trauma-related disorders
- Complex PTSD
- Post-traumatic disorder
- Childhood trauma and abuse
- Sexual and physical abuse
- Medical trauma
Anxiety disorders
- Panic disorder
- Social anxiety
- Phobias
Depressive disorder
- Depression related to trauma
- Low self-esteem or negative self-belief
- Grief or sorrow
Mental health concerns
- Performance anxiety
- Obsessive thoughts
- Addictions and cravings
Is EMDR Right for You?
EMDR is a powerful and transformative therapy, but it is not a one-size-fits-all solution. You must benefit from EMDR if:
- You’ve experienced a traumatic event that still feels emotionally intense
- You find yourself easily triggered by certain sounds, places, people, or situations
- You’ve tried talk therapy but feel stuck or unable to move past certain memories
- You’ve suffered from anxiety, panic, or phobias that seem to have no clear cause
- You struggle with negative self belief
- You’ve experienced chronic stress, relationship stress, or ongoing emotional pain
Final Thoughts
Anxiety indulged with past trauma can feel overwhelming or confusing, but it doesn’t have to be permanent. EMDR helps an individual gently relieve the brain with healing, reprocessing and letting go. Whether you’ve experienced a single distressing event or carry the weight of unresolved pain, EMDR offers relief and clarity by resolving the distressing traumas.
If you want to be relieved from past traumas and anxiety or are considering EDMR, expert help is needed. Dr Kavita Deepak-Knights is a highly experienced Clinical Psychologist in Windsor, Berkshire. With over 20 years of experience, she specialises in various therapeutic approaches, including CBT, ACT, and EMDR. Through Matters of the Mind, she offers personalised psychological therapies tailored to individual needs while addressing a wide range of mental health issues.
Help is available, and you must take the first step towards healing.